How to Define Your Target Audience Without Losing Sight of the Humans
Learn how to define your target audience using real customer needs, behaviors, demographics and buying patterns—not assumptions about fictional personas.
One of the most basic pieces of marketing advice is to “know your target audience.” It sounds simple enough. The harder part is deciding what you actually need to know about them.
How do you define a target audience?
Define your target audience by looking at the real people your business can serve well: their needs, motivations, behaviors, circumstances, geography, decision process, and relevant demographics. Start with actual customer patterns whenever possible rather than relying entirely on a fictional buyer persona.
For years, marketers were encouraged to create detailed buyer personas or ideal customer avatars: give the person a name, an age, a gender, an income, a family, a job, hobbies, and enough other details that everyone could picture exactly who they were marketing to. Demographics can certainly be useful, but there is a danger in becoming so specific about an imaginary customer that we lose sight of the real people making decisions.
Your customers are not personas. They are humans, and humans change. Their needs change. Their circumstances change. The way they research and buy changes. Your business changes, too.
So, defining your target audience should not be an exercise you complete once and set in stone. It is an ongoing process of understanding who your best customers really are, what matters to them, and what makes your business relevant to them.
1. Define Your Target Audience Using What You Actually Know
The original version of this article recommended developing an “ideal avatar,” also known as a buyer persona. The idea behind that exercise remains useful: marketers need a clearer picture of the people deciding to do business with us.
What I would change is how rigidly we define that person.
Start with your actual customers whenever possible. Who buys from you? Who tends to become a particularly good customer? What brought them to you? What were they trying to accomplish? What problem did they need to solve? What mattered when they chose you? What nearly prevented them from doing so?
Demographics can be part of that picture. Age, household characteristics, income, occupation, geography, or other demographic information may genuinely affect who needs a product, how someone buys it, or where you can reach them. If those characteristics matter to the decision, they belong in your definition of the audience.
But demographics alone rarely explain why someone buys.
Two people of the same age, income, gender, and ZIP code can have completely different needs, priorities, experiences, and reasons for choosing a business. That is why we also want to understand motivations, behaviors, concerns, values, circumstances, and the decision someone is trying to make.
The goal is not to create the most detailed imaginary customer possible. It is to understand the real patterns that help you recognize the people your business is best equipped to serve.
2. Create Relevant Content and Pay Attention to the Response
Once you better understand your target audience, use what you know to create content that is genuinely useful to them.
What questions do customers ask before they buy? What do they misunderstand about your product or service? What makes the decision difficult? What information helps them compare their options? What expertise do you have that would make the process easier?
Those are much better starting points for a content strategy than simply asking what the business wants to talk about this week.
Then pay attention to what happens.
Which topics attract the right people? Which pages lead someone deeper into the website? Which emails generate questions or responses? What gets shared? What content helps a salesperson explain something more easily? Which subjects continually come up in conversations with prospects and customers?
Engagement can tell you something, but do not confuse engagement with business value. A social post can collect plenty of likes without attracting a single potential customer. The objective is not merely to discover what gets attention. It is to learn what resonates with the people who matter to the business.
Marketing becomes more useful when content is both an opportunity to communicate and an opportunity to listen.
3. Meet Your Best Customers on Their Turf
The original article declared social media the best proving ground for a content strategy. I would not make that claim today.
Social media can be incredibly useful for some audiences and businesses. For others, the more important places may be search engines, email, industry publications, community events, streaming media, traditional media, professional networks, marketplaces, trade organizations, or simply the conversations happening between customers and the sales team.
The important principle still holds: go where your customers actually are.
Do not maintain a presence on a platform simply because businesses are supposedly expected to be there. Likewise, do not dismiss a channel because it seems old-fashioned or because a newer one is getting more attention.
Look at the people you are trying to reach. Where do they go for information? Where do they discover businesses like yours? What do they trust? What media do they consume? Where are they when your product or service becomes relevant?
Then consider what it realistically costs—in money and time—to reach them there.
The largest audience is not necessarily the best audience, either. The original article cautioned against becoming so focused on niches that a business overlooks a larger audience. That can happen, but the opposite is equally dangerous. Reaching thousands of people who have little reason to care about what you offer is not automatically better than reaching a smaller group with a genuine need for it.
Audience size matters. Audience relevance matters more.
Demographics Are Useful When They Explain Something
This is an important distinction because “target audience” and “demographics” are often treated as though they mean the same thing.
They do not.
Demographics describe characteristics of a population. Your target audience is the group of people your business should be trying to reach.
Sometimes demographics are critical to defining that audience. Geography may matter enormously to a local service business. Age may matter for a product associated with a particular life stage. Income may affect whether someone can realistically purchase what you sell.
Other times, those characteristics tell us very little about the actual decision.
A useful audience definition includes information that helps you make better marketing decisions and omits details that merely make the persona sound more complete.
Look at Your Best Customers, Not Just the Customers You Want
Businesses sometimes define a target audience by describing the customers they would like to have. There is nothing wrong with pursuing a new market, but your existing customers can provide an important reality check.
Look at the people who have already chosen you. Which customers are profitable? Which value do you do particularly well? Which are a good fit for your processes and expertise? Which stay, return, refer others, or expand their relationship with you?
Then look for patterns.
You may discover that your best customers are not exactly who you assumed they were. You may find a segment you have been serving well without intentionally marketing to it. Or you may discover that the audience producing the most inquiries is not actually producing the best business.
Those are valuable distinctions, because marketing should help you attract more of the right business, not simply more attention.
Your Target Audience Will Change
This is one idea from the original article that is even more important today: your audience is not set in stone.
Markets change. Communities change. Customer expectations change. Technology changes how people research and buy. New competitors appear. Businesses add products, enter new markets, change prices, develop expertise, and sometimes discover that the customers they are best equipped to serve have changed along with them.
Defining your target audience is therefore not a document you create, put in a folder, and consider finished.
Keep listening. Look at the customers you are actually attracting. Pay attention to the questions they ask and the reasons they choose you. Compare what your marketing assumptions say with what is happening in the business.
The better you understand the humans on the other side of your marketing, the easier it becomes to decide what to say, where to say it, and which opportunities are actually worth pursuing.
If your target audience exists more clearly in a marketing document than it does in the real world, let’s talk. We can help you turn what you know about your customers into a clearer, more practical marketing strategy.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the difference between a target audience and demographics?
Demographics describe characteristics of a population, such as age, geography, household characteristics, income, or occupation. A target audience is the group of people a business has decided it should reach. Demographics may help define that audience when those characteristics actually affect the buying decision.
Are buyer personas still useful?
Buyer personas can be useful when they summarize real customer research and patterns. They become less useful when marketers invent unnecessary details about an imaginary person and then treat those assumptions as facts about actual customers.
What should you know about your target audience?
Understand what customers need, what they are trying to accomplish, what concerns or barriers affect the decision, how they research their options, where they can be reached, and why they might choose your business. Add demographic information when it helps explain those behaviors or decisions.
How can content help you understand your audience?
Content gives businesses an opportunity to both communicate and listen. Pay attention to which questions, topics, pages, emails, and resources attract the right people and help them move forward rather than evaluating content only by likes or general engagement.
Should a business target the largest possible audience?
Not necessarily. A larger audience has little value if most of the people in it have no meaningful need for what the business offers. Audience relevance, fit, cost to reach, and potential business value should be considered along with audience size.
How often should you reevaluate your target audience?
Reevaluate it whenever meaningful changes occur in your customers, market, products, geography, competition, or business strategy. Even without a major change, regularly comparing your assumptions with actual customer behavior can reveal important shifts.
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